Monthly Archives: January 2016

I have a headache right now.

And I’ve been feeling shaky these past few days. I’m tired, feeling guilty about all the things on my to-do list, and I’ve been spending a lot of time by myself shuttling small things from our old rental unit to … Continue reading

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How did we get here?

There are moments when I look back and remember how angry I was. Angry, sad, frustrated, ignored, lonely. These feelings surged when J and I became parents and almost every interaction with her was a struggle, but in retrospect many of … Continue reading

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Mementos and Apartments

J came over this evening for maybe 45 minutes. Little man — who I now mentally refer to as ‘the minion’ after watching the Minions movie, because he’s about the right size, talks just like one, and is perhaps more … Continue reading

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100% Off the Clock

It’s a Sunday evening and today has been a good day. This morning after a really rare decent night of sleep, Little Man and I had breakfast at home (translate: I had breakfast while he scattered food crumbs and goober-y … Continue reading

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Returning after a Break(up)

I didn’t think I’d come back to this blog. I don’t have time for it, for one thing, and for another, I was tired of the way my life was feeling like a never-ending stream of bad news and bad … Continue reading

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