Tag Archives: co-parenting

Guidelines for Contacting my Ex

It is okay to contact my ex about something directly related to our child (questions, sharing daily information or pictures, etc.) It is okay to contact my ex about something indirectly related to our child (“Hey, thanks for watching Little … Continue reading

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Out and about

Getting out with other people¬†does¬†make me feel better. On Sunday little guy and I went to the community garden for a planting day. I was assigned to put marigolds in the ground by the drip lines. It went well enough, … Continue reading

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Mice, flu, and the general struggle

My son caught the flu at the end of last week. It happened the day before J was scheduled to take him for the weekend, and I felt bad handing him over when he was so dopey and miserable. J … Continue reading

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Measuring Up

I am learning that coping with my new reality is a lot more than just accepting that J doesn’t want to be married to me or be friends anymore. Co-parenting is a whole additional world of trying to find calm … Continue reading

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Reflections, One Sunday Later

Things are a little rough right now between J and me. Last Sunday she took our 22 month old out in a UTV without talking to me first. When I calmed down enough to get the details from her, it … Continue reading

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Note to self:

I need to remember not to short myself on sleep. This weekend has been a weird one, because it is the first entire weekend that I have not had the toddler at all. I’m trying to think if J ever … Continue reading

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